Lesbian Dating

butterkiss · Joined: 04 Dec 2007 Posts: 7

that is my question, im young 23 years old, i have had 2 other boyfriends and they both cheated on me, at least i suspected that the first one was cheating and the second one i found him with another girl at his own house, so by anyhow, for some reason, i have started to find women attractive in teh past few months, so i dont know if you can call me a lesbian or not, how do i know? do i have to actually have been with a girl sexually to be a lesbian or even thoughts and feelings about being with a girl makes me a lesbian? any help from anyone would be o so great,,,, Sad

brittneyfbabyy · Joined: 24 Jan 2008 Posts: 5

to be honest i think defining your sexuality is ridiculous. people change and grow, preferences blur.
the question isn't are you a lesbian.
its if being with a woman can make you happy.
your past failed relationships with men though important, they shouldn't weigh in on your decision to be with woman.

if you find a particular woman attractive, go for it.
box's are restraining.

coachsappho · Joined: 15 Feb 2008 Posts: 1

to 'am i a lesbian?'

i am curious - did your atttraction to women begin just in the last few months OR have there been other attractions previous to that?